People are born to get hurt. People are prone to get hurt. You hurt other people and people would hurt you back. You may cry or yell back or break all the plates and glasses in your kitchen, but once you're hurt, it leaves a scratch in your heart that may never heal.
There are a lot of pain varieties a human could possibly have; pain that may be healed temporarily by putting anything to the injured part. Anything temporary. But life has a part where any "temporaries" cannot possibly take the pain away. Those which were planted in hurt, later bloomed to anger, blossomed to rage and ends in wrath.
Sometimes, people get hurt not because of other people but because of the consequences of the decisions they made. One-time decisions that may lead to a painful end; decisions they wished they never think of. And usually, they carry it until their last breath.
People are hurt physically; you would cry your heart out for the whole day but it would usually end in a nice sleep once your flesh heals.
When people hurt you, you wanted to hurt them back. Probably by hitting them or spread bad, untrue things to them just to get even. Worse, some people opt to kill people,which,for me is the stupidest idea one could think of. I could not blame them, after all, people are different, and everyone has its own different problems. But how you react to any situation affects everything. One could get away with it well but some people cannot.
But even if they are hurting, some people usually say the same words: " I forgive you". Sincere forgiveness and acceptance is one of the best medicines to heal pain. Humans has this certain ability to get away with it; they seemed to look for ways to get away with it. Others would look for someone to help them, look for convenient way to get over it or would go for the hard way,others ignore it until it leaves them and others started to pray...
To feel pain is a sure sign that you are alive, so they say. To cry out in pain makes you stronger. To live with pain makes you a better person. The more pain you get, the more closer you are to God and you must be very glad because God wants you to learn something. No matter how hurt you are, pain has this sweet purpose of letting out your inner child to grow. How you deal with pain makes you who you are right now and will leave a mark of what you have been to other people when you are gone. How you get away with it will be useful for others who look up to you.
(smiles) When I get hurt, I cry sometimes if those were worth my tears, but after that, I usually smile and let out a big sigh. I look up to the sky and say, "Thank you for this opportunity, now, tell me, what would You like me to learn? ", and the answers would always follow....
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